You have to let someone spread their wings to show that they are capable of flying…you sometimes have to let them soar through skies for them to experience things on their own. You can only hope your loyalty, guidance and care for them will hopefully bring them back one day .We try and fix the ones we love self destructive emotions but never carry the right tools for the job. No bandage will heal a broken heart …no ice pack can help the depressed … Only time and patience will show improvement.
As caring people we always have our hands out for those who are in need. We try and be there for them when no one has their back, but when u make a plea for help no ones there for you. We sometimes forget about the ones that patted us on the back when we needed them the most… We undermine those who help wipe off the dirt from our shirts when we fall. We sometimes forget to set up the safety net before telling someone we love to jump. You have to value the people that you have in your life right now because tomorrow is not promised. Some lose focus on what really matters in friendships and or relationships. Why should the ones who give 70% only be satisfied with 30% in return? Why do some want more but can not afford to give?
Be careful who you turn your back to. Not everyone has your best interest…. The same people that pat you on the back will stab you in it as well.
Don’t be hurt when those who’ve had enough push for distance. They need to experience life on their own with out the help of those they always leaned on. Appreciating those who are in your life comes with realizing life without them. You can not draw or illustrate this on a map.. You can only hope that people you let go will realize what life is like without someone to hold their hand through it.
Know your worth and value because no one will ever tell you how much you really cost. If you never show how expensive you are people will always treat you at the price they THINK you should be.