To move on you need to shut certain doors from past relationships. It seems that people leave a door slightly open enough to slide back into that persons life.
Its good to have closure… For yourself. If you don’t it will begin to eat away at you. As well as begin to build up inside of you. It may not affect you today…or tomorrow..but it will maybe months from now or even years. All it takes is one flashback for a breakdown. A breakdown that comes out of no where with tears and anger.
There’s no harm in sending a simple text, calling ..or even establishing a relationship with an ex to tell them what you need to say to be better off.
You leave a door open you your letting someone know they always have an option as well as giving them some type of control in your life. You’re not really done if u can’t walk away w/o looking back.